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Seeking forgiveness for the deceased by the graveside

Question: Is it permissible to stand by the graveside and seek forgiveness and supplicate for the deaceased after burying him, and (likewise) to place/throw sand/earth over the grave?

Response: Yes, it is permisisble to stand by the graveside after burying the deceased, and (likewise) to place/throw sand/earth over the grave and seek forgiveness and supplicate for him. Rather, this is recommended, as Abu Daawood transmits and al-Haakim authenticates on the authority of 'Uthmaan (radhi-yallaahu 'anhu) who narrated that: When the Messenger of Allaah (sal-Allaahu `alayhe wa sallam) completed burying the deceased he used to stand by him (the graveside) and say:

«Seek forgiveness for your brother, and beg steadfastness for him, for he will be questioned now».

And with Allaah lies all the success, and may Allaah send prayers and salutations upon our Prophet Muhammad (sal-Allaahu `alayhe wa sallam) and his family and his companions.

The Permanent Committee for Islaamic Research and Verdicts

Fataawa li Ahlil-Mayyit - Question 27, Page 30

Fataawa al-Lajnah ad-Daa.imah lil-Buhooth al-'Ilmiyyah wal-Iftaa - Volume 9, Page 93

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Published: 29 June 2001